Posted on November 8th, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
Most women still want to be princesses, and most men still seek to win a woman’s heart. Hefner and Sanger diminished the person to the mere sum of parts, yet we know that men and women are remarkable and multifarious, fantastic and so much more. There is still magic in the differences of the sexes—and what a joy it is to encounter them! Indeed, our world contains the possibility of being radically altered by this ‘other,’ who, through the eyes of love, suddenly becomes much larger than we saw before.
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Posted on June 28th, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
Share“Why are you involved with Anscombe Society: Honor of Love at the University of Pittsburgh? I mean its great and all that you want to live a chaste life, but why are you trying to go out there and promote it, can’t people make their own choices to abstain or not?” These are common questions [...]
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Posted on April 26th, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
A regular observance of the weekly dating column in “The Guide” would indicate that students and young adults choose to cohabit as a safety net due to an anxiety over dating and marriage that seems almost impossible to rectify. Yet, if the previous assertions about the risky effects of cohabitation are legitimate, much is at stake. As young adults, our futures hang in the balance and are often determined by the choices we make with our relationships. It is worth thoughtfully considering what the implications of cohabiting may be for us if we hope to secure a solid and stable future well-being.
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Posted on April 19th, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
ShareWhen fraternity pledges marched through Yale’s campus earlier this academic year chanting “No means yes!”, their parade elicited mixed reactions. Such raunchy demonstrations have come to be almost expected by the student body, causing many to be desensitized and to write off such events as dumb jokes that don’t actually represent male opinion, but that [...]
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Posted on April 14th, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
Shareeduhookups.com is the perfect manifestation of the individualism in which I have been trained in the last twenty-one years. This website, which makes available to students a “no strings attached” sexual encounter, enables the persons in my university cohort to pursue personal sexual intrigues so long as the intrigue is mutually desired by another. The [...]
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Posted on February 1st, 2011 by Love and Fidelity Network
the summum bonum of the Love and Fidelity Network: support. It is difficult to over-emphasize the importance of a vital, flourishing community where one can openly express their deepest convictions, especially about matters of love, marriage, and sexual integrity –even personal struggles on the path to virtue. The mere presence of friends similarly convinced of the value of self-respect, the goodness of families and children, and the beauty of a 50th anniversary is sufficient to provide the bedrock on which real change can occur. Perhaps not directly transformative, but as an indirect though necessary consequence of the inner-strength we’ve gained.
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Posted on January 15th, 2011 by Ashley Crouch
Share Woodrow Wilson once said: “You are not here merely to make a living. You are here in order to enable the world to live more amply, with greater vision, with a finer spirit of hope and achievement. You are here to enrich the world, and you impoverish yourself if you forget the errand.” [...]
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Posted on November 25th, 2010 by Ashley Crouch
Share This recent article “Thank you. No, Thank you” stated that those who …frequently feel grateful have more energy, more optimism, more social connections and more happiness than those who do not… On this Thanksgiving Day, we’d like to take a moment to consider what brings us a sense of gratitude. We find the reasons [...]
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Posted on August 31st, 2010 by Ashley Crouch
SharePresident of the Anscombe Society at Princeton, Shivani Radhakrishnan, gives her thoughts on “Brave New World” and its portrayal of sexual integrity. In an effort to catch up on some summer reading (and to fill gaps in my own reading), I started Aldous Huxley’s Brave New World a few days ago. I was surprised to [...]
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Posted on July 16th, 2010 by Ashley Crouch
Fortunately, there are students across the country ready for change, and recent years have seen the emergence of a cultural movement to reclaim sexual integrity on campuses. Groups of students are springing up all around the world, seeking answers to their questions in the hope of rising out of this deep fog of confusion in the realm of dating and sexual intimacy.
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