IvyQ and the Negative Side of Sex-Positivity by Cassandra Hough

Share While Sex Week at Yale (SWAY) and its counter-part, True Love Week, received national media attention this past February from the O’Reilly Factor, US News , USA Today , and NBC, another Ivy League multi-day event on sexuality slipped by somewhat under the radar. The IvyQ conference at Brown on February 16-19 attracted about [...]

“Why Young Persons Would Wait Forevermore” by Catherine Palmer

Most women still want to be princesses, and most men still seek to win a woman’s heart. Hefner and Sanger diminished the person to the mere sum of parts, yet we know that men and women are remarkable and multifarious, fantastic and so much more. There is still magic in the differences of the sexes—and what a joy it is to encounter them! Indeed, our world contains the possibility of being radically altered by this ‘other,’ who, through the eyes of love, suddenly becomes much larger than we saw before.

Sex on a Saturday Night?: Leadership and freshman orientation

A central part of starting the year off right is planning activities for entering freshmen that can balance and supplement orientation programming. In so doing, you will provide them with a supportive community of friends, and help free them from feeling compelled to conform to libertine campus sexual norms that challenge their commitments and offend their sensibilities.

Check Out Our Newly-Expanded Speakers List

ShareWe hope you were able to make it to our last national conference, “Sexuality, Integrity, and the University.”  If you couldn’t join us, perhaps you heard what a success it was and how the powerful line-up of speakers held a crowded room of students spell-bound time and again.  (You may also read about it here [...]

Save the Date! Announcing the 2011 Regional Love and Fidelity Conference

Share Love and Fidelity Network Regional Conference on Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus? Making sense of complementarity and difference among the sexes University of Virginia  •  March 19, 2011 Our regional conference aims to explore the natural differences between men and women, and how recognizing and supporting both those differences and the [...]

Dating on a Shoe-string Budget

Share Just in time for the weekend! We’ve all heard of Rick Steve’s Travel Guide on a Shoe-string budget.  Now, college senior at Notre Dame pens the new edition: Dating on a Shoe-String Budget.  In response to our previous post “How to Bring Dating Back; a Suggestion“, Tess lists some practical, lighthearted, and creative ideas [...]

Beauty and Bathing Suits

young women approached me asking for other options. “If we know that less isn’t more and what we wear significantly impacts how men view women, what can we wear instead?” Do not despair. Vintage is in and classy never goes out of fashion. Consider whether the suit you currently own adequately reflects the beauty you would like to portray. As philosopher and ethicist Dr. Pia de Solenni says: “Beauty draws the seer towards the person seen; it invites them to know and have confidence in that person even without knowing the person intimately.” With this in mind, maybe it is time to go shopping.

How to Bring Dating Back: A Suggestion by David Laprade

What will it take to bring dating back on any given campus? A group of guys brave enough to ask, witty enough to plan, and sincere enough to be trusted—a group of gentlemen, each willing to approach a woman as something at least a little mysterious, as something worthy of his efforts—and a group of women noble enough to be inspiring, trusting enough to take the guys at their word, and humble enough to give them a chance—that is, a group of ladies. The rest will take care of itself. People in college want to date; they just need to see it happen first.

Friendship and Romance by Kevin Kwasnik

“The only legitimate way to acquire intimate knowledge about other persons is sincere friendship; and even if a friend is found unsuitable as one’s potential spouse, the friendship remains worthwhile, and it can be continued indefinitely if the romantic element has been excluded. Moreover, when the time comes for romance, it can provide a richer and more secure basis for marriage if real friendship has preceded and accompanies it.” (TWOTLJ II 9 I)