My Sexual Choices Now Are Making a Difference, LFN’s 5th Annual Intercollegiate V-Day Campaign

ShareToday, the Love and Fidelity Network is pleased to introduce an intercollegiate advertising campaign with the prominent tagline “My sexual choices now are making a difference.” This campaign–presented by 19 colleges and universities (including five Ivy Leagues) through 9,000 posters–sends the message that college students’ current sexual choices can increase their confidence in achieving other [...]

“A Business Plan for Life?” by Casey Gleave

When people who have a high need for achievement—and that includes all Harvard Business School graduates—have an extra half hour of time or an extra ounce of energy, they’ll unconsciously allocate it to activities that yield the most tangible accomplishments. And our careers provide the most concrete evidence that we’re moving forward. You ship a product, finish a design, complete a presentation, close a sale, teach a class, publish a paper, get paid, get promoted. In contrast, investing time and energy in your relationship with your spouse and children typically doesn’t offer that same immediate sense of achievement. Kids misbehave every day. It’s really not until 20 years down the road that you can put your hands on your hips and say, “I raised a good son or a good daughter.” You can neglect your relationship with your spouse, and on a day-to-day basis, it doesn’t seem as if things are deteriorating. People who are driven to excel have this unconscious propensity to underinvest in their families and overinvest in their careers—even though intimate and loving relationships with their families are the most powerful and enduring source of happiness.

“Reclaiming Marriage” by Luciana Milano and James McGlone

The answer lies in norms fundamental to the nature of marriage. Ideally, marriage is characterized by permanence and fidelity, which foster a uniquely strong and enduring relationship. Marriage is not merely a union of hearts and minds, nor is it only a romantic or sexual partnership. It is a comprehensive union that unites a husband and wife across all dimensions of the person.

“How University Faculty and Ministry Leaders are Supporting the Pro-Life and Pro-Family Message” by Cassy Hough

It is understandable, then, that when university faculty serve as advisers for pro-life and pro-family student initiatives, or sponsor receptions such as the aforementioned one at Princeton, they lend legitimacy to the pro-life and pro-family positions by virtue of their own academic reputation and standing.

Reversing the Retreat from Marriage

An increasing number of young Americans who have completed high school but not college are having children in fragile cohabiting relationships instead of within marriage. Even those who are married face a high divorce rate, being more than twice as likely to divorce in the first ten years of marriage as their college-educated peers. As Wilcox and Cherlin state in their paper, “The nation’s retreat from marriage, which started in low-income communities in the 1960s and 1970s, has now moved into Middle America”.

“Words Matter. Names Matter.” By Kendel Christensen

Share“Words matter. Names matter.”(1) This is how Therese Stewart and her team of lawyers began their oral arguments defending San Fransisco’s issuing of marriage licenses to same-sex couples. Their argument was that applying any label other than “marriage” to same-sex couples sent a message, though an implicit one, that same-sex couples were different and inferior [...]

Slippery Slopes in Canada by Cassy Hough

personal union made manifest through their physical union, where the two become one. To remove this central feature of marriage — coital union achieved through the loving, exclusive coming together of complementary spouses – is to open a Pandora’s box of other possible combinations of people who love each other and look to validate their relationships through marriage.

Who Needs Marriage? Children Do!

While a growing number of Americans may view marriage as a dying institution, its benefits for children are clear. As our nation’s poverty rate continues to climb, preventing and strengthening fragile families will become increasingly important.

Balancing Motherhood and Career: A Response to WSJ article “Mother Madness” by Cassy Hough

If we want to have a discussion over women’s freedom and the nuances of balancing our commitments, we’d be better served by encouraging the type of community support Jong advocates and creating policies that are friendlier to mothers in the workplace.

Stand for the Family Symposium

A video covering the Stand for the Family Symposium is now available!